What It Takes To Be The Difference In Your Life

Are you living the life you want, or do you feel like you are capable of more?

If you answered yes, not sure why you clicked the link, but my guess is you have doubts. If you answered no, then read on. I believe you will find this very helpful.

Before we get started, I need you to understand that you only get one life, one at-bat, one chance to be the difference in your life.

What are you waiting for? Here’s your sign it’s time to act on that feeling. 

Congratulations, you took the first step by clicking the link to read this post.

It’s the first step, and I’m a big believer in celebrating your wins, no matter how small they are. Take a moment. Ok, let’s get to work.

Let me take the time to address each of those. I will start with being stuck, then off to the dreaded comfort zone.

First, I want you to understand your mind is very powerful, and it’s up to you to learn how to navigate what it’s telling you.

Over the course of the day, you have many thoughts. Just because you think it does not make it real. It’s important to observe your thoughts, not believe them.

So many of you drudge through a mundane life doing something you don’t truly enjoy because you feel stuck or are afraid to leave your comfort zone. 

When you feel stuck, this is your self-fulfilling prophecy.

Let me explain; you’ve put in your head that you are stuck. Yes, you did that. You’ve convinced yourself that your current situation is something you cannot get out of, and I’m here to tell you nothing could be further from the truth.

Ok, I get it. You’ve done some self-reflection, and at the end of that, you are still convinced you are stuck. You are WRONG, and I need you to be aware of something about self-reflection.

Whenever you’re doing self-reflection, keep in mind that not only are you the con artist, you are the one being conned. You might want to read that again!!

When doing self-reflection, you let your mind convince yourself you are stuck, when in reality, you’re not.

So next time you are doing self-reflection, be sure you are honest with yourself and don’t allow your mind to trick you. I think you owe it yourself, don’t you?

Let me address the comfort zone that
so many of you find yourself in.

When you are in a comfort zone, usually it’s because it feels safe. You are too scared
to step outside in fear you might fail.

So, you tell yourself, let’s stay here to be safe. I can always venture out later.

You are correct. It is easier to stay.
I will also warn you that later can quickly become never because you haven’t done anything to address the fear.

Listen, I understand fear is a part of life, but it’s nothing you cannot overcome.

I’m going to go out on a limb and say you’ve faced fear before. Whatever that outcome was, you are better off for facing that fear.  

A comfort zone is a great place to be. However, keep in mind nothing ever grows in a comfort zone.

You were not put on this earth live in your comfort zone. You’re an amazing person, and the world needs you to share your gift.

I know you are on the edge of your seat, wondering how you can move out of these situations.

I want to share my proven DICE methodology to help you start being the difference in your life. This will not be easy.

Then again, nothing in life worth having has ever been easy. You must want it (you are here, aren’t you?), and work for it. I know you’ve done hard things before, and I know you can and will do it again.

Here is the cliff notes version of my proven DICE methodology. If you would like more details, please go to my contact page.  Put your info in, then put “MORE DICE” in the comments, and I will happily send it to you.

D = Describe your ultimate life; nothing should be off the table.

I = Impact; what would the impact be to your life be if you were living your ultimate life?

C = Crevice, what Crevice are you hiding in because you are afraid to take steps to live your ultimate life?

E = Exit, when will you take the necessary steps to exit your current situation and start living your ultimate life?

There’s more than a chance as long as you put your “WHY” in the driver’s seat.

Be on the lookout next week for my blog post on the steps to put your “WHY” in the driver’s seat.

There’s a reason you clicked on the link to read this post. 

I want you to know the moment you feel like you deserve more, you do. Don’t ignore it, and go about your daily life. Pause, ask yourself why you are feeling this way.

The time is now to act upon that feeling. I’m happy to help you in your journey. After all that’s what I do.

Thank you for taking the time - I’m blessed I get to share this life changing information with you.

Best,
Paul – ZUP2U